Are you busy or making a difference?
Do you ever feel like your work day is not your own? You have drop ins to your office – residents, staff, contractors. You have calendar request magically appear from someone who hasn’t checked your availability first.
By the end of the day, you feel like you’ve run a frantic race, and yet you haven’t gotten anywhere.
Here’s the hard truth: being busy doesn’t mean you’re making progress.
The challenge is to shift from reacting to what feels urgent, to focusing on what truly matters. That starts with being deliberate about where your time goes.
Start with outcomes, not tasks
Before diving into the to-do list, pause and ask: What does success look like this week? When you are clear on outcomes, it becomes easier to drop or delay work that doesn’t serve them.
Filter by impact vs. effort
Some activities deliver far more value than others. High impact / low effort tasks deserve first attention. High impact / high effort projects should be planned and scheduled. Low impact work? Question whether it should be done at all.
Prioritise people as well as projects
Some of your most important work is invisible, like building trust with residents, clarifying direction with staff, helping people feel supported. Your calendar should reflect this.
Set boundaries to protect your priorities
Being available to residents is vital, but if your door is always open, your priorities will always be pushed aside. Consider setting clear times for resident drop-ins and communicating when you are focusing on village priorities. This isn’t shutting people out. It’s ensuring you can give both your residents and your strategic work the attention they deserve.
Limit your daily focus
Your brain is not designed for ten urgent tasks at once. Choose three priorities each day that matter most. Everything else becomes a bonus, not the baseline.
Learn to say “not now”
You don’t have to say “no” forever. Often it’s enough to say, “I’d like to give this my full attention, can we revisit next week?” That way, you manage expectations while protecting your focus.
Share your focus
Let your team know what you’re working on and why. This creates alignment, reduces interruptions, and sets a model for prioritisation across the whole village.
Reflect weekly
At the end of each week, ask: What was the most valuable thing I did? What could I drop with little consequence? Over time, this builds sharper instincts about what matters most.
You don’t need more hours.
What you need is clarity—about the outcomes that matter and the boundaries that protect them.
“The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.”
— Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
Call to action:
At the end of each week, ask: What was the most valuable thing I did? What could I drop with little consequence? Over time, this builds sharper instincts about what matters most.
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